6 Quick Ways To Relieve Stress & Boost Your Mood

Relieve stress quickly with these natural stress busters and feel better straight away!

Why am I so stressed?

Stress is essential to your survival.

Your brain and body has evolved to respond quickly to danger. Which means stress is a natural feeling in response to threat.

But that’s hardly helpful news when you’re feeling completely overwhelmed by modern day demands.

With the pressures from

  • work
  • relationships
  • systemic oppression
  • financial worries, or
  • a global pandemic

chronic stress undermines your mental and physical health.

Under these conditions, practising restful self-care is vital to soothe anxiety, depression and overwhelm.

Why does being calm improve your mood?

Pie chart showing the different moods associated with nervous system arousal and valence

Being calm is only one way to feel better.

In psychological terms, affect is the underlying experience of your mood.

And your affective state depends on two main factors: valence and arousal.

Valence is a gradient from unpleasant to pleasant.

Arousal is a measure of nervous system activation.

Feel agitated? You have high arousal and unpleasant valence.

Feeling bored? That’s low arousal and unpleasant valence.

Contented? You have low arousal and pleasant valence.

Every emotion you feel falls within this spectrum.

This is important because once you know where you are on the emotional spectrum? You can take action to reduce your stress and boost your mood.

Feeling low in energy? Do something to increase your nervous system arousal.

Feeling overwhelmed by stress? Decrease your arousal with calming activities.

Want to boost your mood? Do something enjoyable to change your valence from unpleasant to pleasant.

Here are some ideas to get you started.

6 ways to quickly relieve stress & boost your mood

1. Listen to meditones

decreases arousal & increases valence for calm

When two slightly different frequencies of sound combine, they create a humming vibration. And when you listen to this vibration in headphones?

It creates a fascinating auditory perception called binaural beats.

Your brain responds by creating calm brain waves. Similar to ones you produce during calm focus, meditation and restful sleep.

Meditones are binaural beats mixed with beautiful ambient music.

Graph of 5 seconds of Theta brain waves and their benefits

This makes meditones a fantastic option for autistic, ADHD or other neurodivergent people who may struggle with traditional forms of meditation.

Because meditones make you calm without you having to do a thing.

Just listen with headphones, and the meditones effect occurs naturally and easily.

You can discover hours of meditones inside the Restful app.

Check out the meditones Mood Booster playlist inside the Restful app. Download for free on Google Play or the App Store today!

2. Active play

increases arousal & increases valence for happiness

Virtually any form of exercise can act as a stress reliever.

Physical activity increases your brain’s production of euphoric ‘feel-good’ neurotransmitters called endorphins.

The most important thing is to pick an activity that you enjoy.

You could try yoga, Pilates, dancing or Tai Chi.

You could even jump on a trampoline with your kids, play fetch with your dog, or throw a frisbee with friends.

If you have limited mobility, exercising in water can be especially beneficial as it supports the body and reduces the risk of muscle or joint discomfort.

Get moving in any way you can and feel the stress melt away.

3. Breathwork

decreases arousal & increases valence for calm

When you’re stressed your breathing becomes shallow and fast. But breathwork is about consciously using your breath to calm yourself down.

When you focus on exhaling deeply, you activate the parasympathetic nervous system (PNS).

The PNS is the calming arm of your nervous system and helps you:

  • decrease alertness
  • feel calmer
  • digest food, and
  • lower your heart rate

When you start to feel tension rising, try exhaling for twice as long as you inhale.

To begin, simply inhale for a count of 2 and exhale for a count of 4. Repeat for a few rounds until you feel your body relax and your mind ease. Animation of inhaling for a count of 2 and exhaling for a count of 4

4. Do a puzzle

decreases arousal & increases valence for contentment

A box of a Whiled puzzle on a beige mat with a yellow bowl of green puzzle pieces in the corner

Our brains love patterns and problem solving. And puzzles give you both.

  1. as you search for the right pieces, and
  2. as you piece together the larger picture.

Puzzles require a certain level of concentration, so your brain is creating a mindful moment.

For many people, doing a jigsaw puzzle feels like meditation.

And with each puzzle piece successfully placed? You get a hit of dopamine which soothes the brain. This rewarding neurotransmitter reaches its peak with the puzzle’s completion.

There are so many different types of jigsaw puzzles available these days, so you can easily find an image that speaks to you.

Our current fave puzzles are from Whiled with their bold, modern artistic prints.

Or hunt for some vintage puzzles at your local thrift store for a bargain.

5. Watch a comedy

increases arousal & increases valence for happiness

Laughing reduces stress hormones and releases endorphins (the body’s natural feel-good chemicals). Which makes watching comedies an underrated form of stress relief.

There’s no shortage of material. You could search for comedy on Netflix. You could find comedy podcasts to listen to, or even search your local comedy clubs for a fun night out.

6. Stabilise your blood sugar

decreases arousal & increases valence for contentment

Blue plate of salad and an avocado on a wooden table

Low blood sugar makes you moody. Because it’s pretty hard to feel calm and resilient when you’re buffeted by waves of hunger and exhaustion. It’s called ‘hangry’ for a reason.

Blood sugar is also known as glucose. Without enough glucose, your body can’t perform its normal functions.

Symptoms of low blood sugar include:

  • mood swings
  • nervousness
  • sudden fatigue
  • headaches
  • trouble concentrating

To stabilise blood sugar, eat regularly and embrace healthy fats - nuts, avocado, eggs, cheese and fatty fish. Meals and snacks high in healthy fats and protein help you feel sated and stabilise your blood sugar.

Note: hypoglycemia from diabetes or medication can be very dangerous. If someone is having a severe reaction, such as unconsciousness, contact emergency services immediately.

Takeaway

Your mood is always based on a combination of valence (how pleasant something feels) and arousal (nervous system activation).

By managing these two factors, you can more easily reduce stress and feel good.

Relieving stress can often feel like a full time job. But with these quick fixes, feeling calm and happy will hopefully be easier and a lot more fun.

Relieve stress & boost your mood with the Restful app. Download for free on Google Play or the App Store today!